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Myers to Take Some Time Off

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Philadelphia Phillies SP Brett Myers will take a leave of absence through the All-Star break to focus on personal matters following his arrest on assault charges against his wife. "First, while I dispute that the facts are as alleged, I recognize that my behavior was inappropriate and for that I apologize," Myers said in a statement Tuesday. "Second, I recognize that the incident created an embarrassing situation for many people, including my wife and family, my teammates, the Phillies organization, and fans, and I am very sorry for that."


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  • Philadelphia Phillies Official Website


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Tue 06/27/06, 12:50 pm EST


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LPAnderson
1274 days ago
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"First, while I dispute that the facts are as alleged, I recognize that my behavior was inappropriate and for that I apologize."

My God.

Brett was an amateur BOXER as a youth, for god's sake! His wife apparently wanted to stay out a little later than Brett did on Thursday night in Boston. So he punched her. Twice. IN FRONT OF WITNESSES.

An eyewitness said that Kim Myers yelled “I’m not going to let you do this anymore!” It's clear this is not the first time this has ever happened between Brett and Kim. Especially after he told the media on Saturday that he was embarrassed that the situation became public.

And then Brett pleads not guilty? A bully AND a coward.

But even more craven was the Phillies' response. So starved for a win, they sent Myers out to the mound to face Curt Schilling in Saturday’s matinee in front of a NATIONAL AUDIENCE.

The Phillies had a golden opportunity to let their players and fans know that some things are more important than a single win. Disapproving of domestic violence should qualify.

They said Myers was the Phillies best chance for a victory. And they were right.

It appears he was also the best chance to shed additional light on one of pro sports most ammoral front offices.

Myers should have been sent home after his wife had to pay his $200 bail. No interviews. No starts. No soundbites. He should have been sent home and put on administrative leave, wins and losses be damned.

Whatever happened to apologizing? Whatever happened to consequences? Whatever happened to keeping your hands to yourself and respecting women?

No matter what happens the rest of the year, Myers and the whole Phillies’ organization are losers.
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JuTMSY4Legend
1273 days ago
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Wait LPA, were you there? Did you witness anything? Did you even talk to one of the witnesses? No, you didn't. I'm tired of hearing this crap. I've written about this multiple times: I don't approve of hitting women, but there is a lot more to this that you seem to understand. Myers apologized, admitted he was wrong and said he was getting help. He said he would do whatever it took and you attack the guy. Once again, I'm not condoning his actions, but you don't know what happened and last i checked, there was no definitive verdict on his case. And he pleaded not guilty because he feels that he is not guilty. Foolish comment. I'm sticking to my guns on this. I suggest you at least read my most recent buy or sell article before you attempt to comment further. GO ahead and minus away...
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JuTMSY4Legend
1273 days ago
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By the way, he was an "amateur" boxer alright. He was a boxer up until age 12...
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MetsJetsDevilsDraft Pick
1273 days ago
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This is why cases are tried in the media these days. Its not like the Press ever gets anything wrong!!
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XinophDraft Pick
1273 days ago
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And I'm tired of apologists for wife-beaters who happen to be MLB players.
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LPAnderson
1273 days ago
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i'm going to "attempt to comment further" without taking your suggestion.

there's a lot more than i seem to understand?

please edify me. in one sentence you say he apologized and is getting help. in the next you state without irony that despite this, he STILL PLED NOT GUILTY because he "feels he is not guilty." so just what did he "feel" he needed to apologize FOR? poor table manners?

as for no definitive verdict, there were MULTIPLE WITNESSES. it was in a PUBLIC BAR. what don't i understand? that she just wasn't listening? that she DESERVED it? if people witness a man punch his wife, just WHAT definitive legal verdict is needed by MLB or the phillies' front office to take further action?

an adult male with ZERO boxing training could pulverize the majority of women. that he was trained in this area makes it even more disturbing. my guess is when he hit puberty, he realized he couldn't beat the crap out of guys anymore so moved on to those who couldn't fight back.

i am perplexed and, frankly, somewhat amused that you would reserve your vitriole for someone who simply criticized a player rather than a man who beats his wife. your response is patronizing, replete with contradictions and no small amount of arrogance.

nevertheless, i find it absurd and somewhat sad that you would think i would mark your comment with a "minus" simply because you disagree with me. it's called debate. i'm not afraid of it. are you?

here's what i AM afraid: people who, blinded by loyalty - to a team, group, community - explain away terrible behaviour with blustery rhetoric rather than critical thinking, people who would rather defend a team than what is ethically right, people who can comfortably forgive the unforgivable.

and i don't suggest you read anything before "attempting to comment further." feel free. as long as your fist doesn't touch my body, it's fair game.
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MetsJetsDevilsDraft Pick
1273 days ago
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The People have the responsibility to prove his guilt. He has no obligation to prove he is innocent or admit his guilt.
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ASwaffAll-American
1273 days ago
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Anderson, have you heard read their statements to the officers, or do you just know that they all said they saw him hit her? If you haven't read them, you don't know about contradictions in their testimonies that could negate them. You don't know how intoxicated they were. You weren't there. You are convicting him before he's stood trial. Furthermore, it's reprehensible that you're insinuating that people here think she somehow deserved it when nobody has said anything of the sort.
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JuTMSY4Legend
1273 days ago
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The direct quote from myers is "while I dispute that the facts are as alleged, I recognize that my behavior was inappropriate, and for that I apologize. "Second, I recognize that the incident created an embarrassing situation for many people, including my wife and family, my teammates, the Phillies organization, and fans, and I am very sorry for that."
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ASwaffAll-American
1273 days ago
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By the way, I don't give minuses just for disagreeing. True, I disagree with you. But I gave you a minus because of how badly you miss the point, how blatantly you misrepresent those who disagree with you in your statement, and for being too quick to dole out judgement. That's why you got the minuses.
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XinophDraft Pick
1273 days ago
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Funny, ASwaff, that's why I gave you minuses, too.
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LPAnderson
1273 days ago
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well, that would require me to care.

and by the way, you all want to grow this place, then keep crapping on everyone who has an opinion different than yours. it'll be doing gangbusters.

(and if you're too dense to grasp it, that's called sarcasm)
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LPAnderson
1273 days ago
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so, he's sorry? i would like to know FOR WHAT? please explain.
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XinophDraft Pick
1273 days ago
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Yes, there's no reason to go after LPA, he has a good point. If he's innocent, he has nothing to apologize for. If he's guilty, he shouldn't dispute the "facts as alleged." This jackass (Myers, not any of you all) is trying to apologize without admitting guilt, just like Jason Giambi did with steroids, just like any number of celebrities from various Presidents on down have done. Every time somebody does this it's BS, frankly. If you're apologizing, you did *something* wrong. If you don't think you did anything wrong - as Myers and many people on this site seem to feel about his actions - then there's no need to apologize. Trying to cloud it up and defend somebody whose actions are indefensible
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JuTMSY4Legend
1273 days ago
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So, if he didn't apologize, what would you say.
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XinophDraft Pick
1273 days ago
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He didn't apologize. I didn't hear a real apology there. Where did he say "I'm sorry for beating my wife?" THere was no apology.
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JuTMSY4Legend
1273 days ago
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Seriosly, look at the quote I took directly from the article, I'll do it again: "while I dispute that the facts are as alleged, I recognize that my behavior was inappropriate, and for that I apologize. "Second, I recognize that the incident created an embarrassing situation for many people, including my wife and family, my teammates, the Phillies organization, and fans, and I am very sorry for that." He quite literally says the word, apologize...
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XinophDraft Pick
1273 days ago
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What was he apologizing for? Unless he says what he was apologizing for, it's not a real apology. Was he apologizing for beating his wife, or just for getting caught this time? It's a weasel apology. Unless you admit what you did that was wrong, own it, accept responsibility, and try to change in some way, it's not a real apology. It's like a little kid who says sorry just because his parents ask him. Unless he admits guilt for something, the apology means nothing to me, and it shouldn't to anybody else, either.
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JuTMSY4Legend
1273 days ago
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You're serious. He admitted that his conduct was inappropriate however he feels that some of the facts have been misconstrued. Regardless, as a public figure, he considers it his responsibility to apologize. Especially considering the circumstances, he did not want it to be an admittance of guilt. Once again, I stress, Have any of you read the documentation or interviewed a witness. I'm not trying to berate anyone, but this is the type of crap that seperates bloggers...Regardless, Xinoph, are you still going to fenway tonight?
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XinophDraft Pick
1273 days ago
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What conduct? I don't know what he was talking about. Unless he apologizes directly for an action by mentioning what he did, and admitting he was wrong, it's not good enough. Did you think Giambi's steroids "apology" was good enough? Unless you admit what you did wrong, it's not an apology in my book. Yes, I'm still going to Fenway....let me email you my cell number & we can try to touch base. Let's hope Peter Gammons is OK by then :)
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XinophDraft Pick
1273 days ago
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"embarrassing". Yeah, I'd call having the living daylights beaten out of you a little more than embarrassing. Imagine if that were the legal term? "I'm sorry, sir, you're under arrest for embarrassing your wife."
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XinophDraft Pick
1273 days ago
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He'll be taking even more time off later this year or early in the next, when he's rotting his crazy ass away in prison.
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ChristofMVP
1273 days ago
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Myers will not go to prison for this. At worse, he goes on probation. Will likely be ordered to seek anger management counceling and to pay a fine.
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Bleeding GreenVarsity
1273 days ago
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Now, you're kidding yourself! Athletes don't go to prison. I'll be surprised if charges are even brought. The wife won't press charges. This situation is already over. Go out and pitch well and no one will care.
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JuTMSY4Legend
1273 days ago
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Yeah, anger management won't do anything anyway, its a farce...look at JOhn Rocker, he didn't do it and he turned out fine...
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XinophDraft Pick
1273 days ago
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He will go to prison. He'll be tried in Massachusetts; you don't know Mass law. It's very strict about assholes.
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XinophDraft Pick
1273 days ago
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His wife doesn't have to press charges under Mass law for him to be brought to trial. He was caught "red-handed"; in those cases nobody has to press charges, especially in domestic violence cases. Look up Mass law before you babble on about this.
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Bleeding GreenVarsity
1273 days ago
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Oh give me a break about Mass law. This will be swept under the carpet just like everything else pro athletes do. The wife won't press charges, at worst he'll plea to something small and pay a fine. He'll get off very easily. Myers was in Boston and probably figured "When in Rome..."
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JuTMSY4Legend
1273 days ago
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Xinoph, sorry buddy, but I do know mass law, I live there currently. Better yet, Its what I do for a living. It is true that per state law if more than 2 witnesses see domestic violence, then they do not need a person to press charges, however, if the actual victim refuses to press charges it drastically reduces the creditability of the witnesses. Moreover, the actual charge is lessened as such. Even then, I would argue that there are so many mitigating factors (drunkeness on the part of myers, his wife and the witnesses, the time of night, 12:20am, and the circumstances surroudning the dispute), not to mention that myers does not have history of this. I would surmise that he will get community service and maybe probabtion.
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LPAnderson
1273 days ago
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JuTm, i'm going to take one more try at this.

According to you, Myers stated: "while I dispute that the facts are as alleged, I recognize that my behavior was inappropriate, and for that I apologize. Second, I recognize that the incident created an embarrassing situation for many people, including my wife and family, my teammates, the Phillies organization, and fans, and I am very sorry for that."

The very quote YOU CITE disproves your claim that I am rushing to judgment as nothing has yet been proven.

The event is no longer alleged. It HAS been proven. Myers HIMSELF has proven it with his statement.

Here is what we can now state as FACT, based on HIS OWN WORDS:

1) There was an incident.

2) His behaviour was inappropriate.

3) His actions have created an embarrassing situation for family, team and fans.

4) He is sorry for his inappropriate behaviour and actions.

The problem, as Xinoph so pointedly noted: WHAT happened? What did Myers specifically do for which he is apologizing?

He "quite literally" - and quite conveniently - leaves that out.

As for bleeding green, i think you're probably right. As long as he pitches well, ultimately no one will care.

Which, to me, is incredibly sad.
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LPAnderson
1273 days ago
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Apologies, I left something important out so must post again:

JuTm, you state:

"He admitted that his conduct was inappropriate however he feels that some of the facts have been misconstrued. Regardless, as a public figure, he considers it his responsibility to apologize."

Since when is it a public person's responsibility to apologize days after an event for something he or she has not done?

And what gives you a deeper insight than the rest of us? How do YOU know what he meant by that statement? Why are you more capable of interpreting information offered than the rest of us?

Were you in the meetings held to craft this statement?

If you were, here's a question: If he is innocent, why wouldn't he just say so? I, for one, can think of dozens of others words and phrases that could have been used which would have acknowledged causing embarrasment but offering no apology if he did nothing.

Between agent, manager, PR folks and lawyers, over a dozen people likely had a hand in crafting this statement. My ignorant blogger guess is that they wanted to diffuse this situation with the media and fans but not say anything that would expose him to more jail time with a judge and jury.

In other words, he couldn't lie in the statement by saying he was innocent. And he couldn't admit to exactly what he did because that would conflict with his "not guilty" plea.

Bottom line, his statement is doublespeak, JuT, and even with an IQ of body temperature, I can see that. Why can't you?

You write:

"Have any of you read the documentation or interviewed a witness. I'm not trying to berate anyone, but this is the type of crap that seperates bloggers."

You're right. I only know what he admitted in his statement. I also know that Myers, a professional baseball player, IN THE MIDDLE OF THE MLB SEASON, is taking a leave of absence to handle personal matters.

Maybe he feels it's his responsibility as a public figure to do that.

That's going a long way to appease us ignorant bloggers, don't you think?
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JuTMSY4Legend
1273 days ago
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There was an incident, and he should apologize. As I've said before, I do not condone any of those activities, however, there is this thing called due process which we all have a right to regardless of standing. Are you suggesting that, prior to his court date, he should admit anything. That's foolish regardless of who you are. Once again, I do not condone these sorts of things, but people make mistakes. Moreover, Its been the responsibility of numerous public figures to address any type of issue they've been involved with. In myers case, he's pled "Not guilty" which is different than innocent. Look, I'm not going to keep arguing, my point is this: Do not attack this guy until you get the whole story. I know that we will all receive this through the news, but this is why we have a court system. When/If (I'm guessing they'll work out a deal) he is finished with this, then you are welcome to state the facts and create opinions on them as such.
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LPAnderson
1273 days ago
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Well, you make a compelling case, JuT.

I shouldn't attack a guy until I have the whole story.

And I forgot about due process.

Rethinking my hasty condemnation of Abu Masub Al-Zarqawi and Saddamn Hussein as a result of your persuasive argument.
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FornelliTee-Baller
1273 days ago
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My favorite part of this whole thing is that Ozzie Guillen calls a guy a fag and we want to fine and suspend him, or hell we want him fired, but when Brett Myers punches a woman in the face (Conflicting eyewitness reports as is, if 15 people say they saw him punch his wife in the face, trivial facts as to whether it was a right hook or cross shouldn't matter)and we should hear out his side of the story, and give him due process. What a fucking joke.
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FornelliTee-Baller
1273 days ago
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Oh and I know since you're a Phillie fan that's why your taking his side Jut, but imagine it was your mother or sister Myers "allegedly" punched in the face. Would you still be willing to hear his side of the story? Give him due process?
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