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I must be naive.

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by user The Waiver Wire

Do these words seem familiar to anyone else?

In the past few weeks, I have learned a lifetime of lessons. First and foremost, I need to reorganize my priorities. As a grown man and a new father, my first priority is my daughter and family. Second, I have to not only meet the expectations of my coaches, teammates and fans, but to exceed them in every respect, on and off the field. The first step in meeting these goals is for me to stop making the poor choices that have put me in this position.

I truly believed that the full page ad taken out by Pac-Man Jones in the Tennessean constituted a first step on the path that Titans fans have been hoping he'd take since being drafted.

I guess I'm naive.

Let me clarify my position on this issue - It was obvious that he needed to be punished, but I was one who believed that his full-year suspension would be a long-term investment. The 2007 season would be a struggle, but having the electrifying corner/returner back with a clearer head on his shoulders would be beneficial to Tennessee's defense for years to come.

Now, as I sit here 59 days after the ad was published, I get a discouraging feeling of deja-vu reading this article.

I understand that according to all accounts, Pac-Man either left the scene before shots were fired all together, or simply was not involved in the shooting. That doesn't particularly matter either way - his choices in Atlanta show me that he still has another lifetime of lessons to learn before any progress is made. I fail to understand how reorganizing his priorities involves frequenting strip clubs with the same group of friends that have escalated his prior troubles. I fail to understand how as a new father, this is how he shows his devotion to his child, and I don't see how this is exceeding the expectations of his team, coaches and fans off the field.

This incident is another rung on the ladder that'll lead him to a prison cell, or worse, and I hope to wake up one morning and see that he, without a doubt, had nothing to do with this latest incident. I also hope for his benefit he turns his life around, and becomes a capable father and man first, and a Pro-Bowl caliber cornerback second. Come week 11, I hope to be able to cheer for him as he steps back on the field.

Then again, I guess I'm naive.

    


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ChristofMVP
910 days ago
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Pac-Man is a hopeless cause. You really think you are going to change a man who has money and been pampered all of his life. Just is like saying Paris Hilton is going to change into a girl you would want to bring home to meet your parents.
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JuTMSY4Legend
910 days ago
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I guess we'll have to wait until they cure Herpes then...
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Tyrone BriggsHall of Famer
910 days ago
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To: Christof, Please read from Pacman Jones' Wik Page:

"When Adam Jones was ten years old, his father was shot and killed. Jones was raised by his mother, Deborah Jones, and his grandmother, Cristine Jones, for most of his life. When Jones was a freshman at West Virginia, his grandmother died of cancer. Jones missed a game to attend the funeral, the only game he missed in his three-year collegiate career. On the day of the NFL Draft, Jones wore a t-shirt that featured his grandmother's picture." URL: http://en.wi...)#Early_life

I hardly consider that Jones has been "pampered all of his life".
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Tyrone BriggsHall of Famer
910 days ago
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And no that does not excuse Jones' poor decisions nor even offer a defense for continuing his NFL career. However, it does shed a little light on how some of these guys fail off the field.
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The Waiver WireSoccer Kid
910 days ago
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I know you're coming from, and it pains me to accept that you're probably right. However, until that day when Goodell suspends him in a Pete Rose-esque fashion, or I'm reading his obituary, I'll hold out a bit of hope. Thus the title of the article.
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Tyrone BriggsHall of Famer
910 days ago
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I have no problem with your post, Waiver Wire. Pacman Jones is clearly making a mess out of his life despite his reformed "marketing campaign" which is purely hypocritical. However, I was commenting on an opinion here about his so-called "pampered life" which is not entirely accurate. Fractured childhoods that include missing parents equals trouble for many later in life. Sadly, that appears to be the case of Pacman Jones. Hopefully the young man can turn it around before prison or perhaps even death becomes his fate. And it sadens me that some here (not on this post) find the criminal behavior or in the very least extremely poor decisions of some of these athletes as a source of amusement.
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Taytay 24All-American
909 days ago
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While I certainly empathize with Pacman's life struggles, make no mistake, Tyrone, he has been and continues to be pampered. 'The System' has told him time and again that he can do what he wants and that the rules don't apply to him.
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Tyrone BriggsHall of Famer
909 days ago
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Pacman Jones has been suspended by the commissioner and will not be playing football this season. The legal system is grinding its wheels forward for whatever fate lies with this kid. I hardly think Jones has not faced consequences (which were earned) for his wrongdoings because he is an athlete.
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Taytay 24All-American
909 days ago
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And it's about time. How long did it take for him to finally face some consequences? How many high school grades were altered? How many college classes were taken care of? How much money did he receive from boosters? How many other legal issues have been swept under the rug? Better question: If someone had slapped his wrist for a minor offence years ago, might he not have ended up suspended today?
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JuTMSY4Legend
909 days ago
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nice research tyrone...i didn't know about his dad... He clearly should be punished for his "crimes" in adulthood, such as dumping money in a club, being involved in a shooting, etc (that is if he is convicted) and the NFL does, to some extent, have a right to control him as he is a "representative," and a lot of his stupid decisions have to do with the way he was raised, his new found fortune and his friends...pacman needs to reconsider who he hangs around with...
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Tyrone BriggsHall of Famer
909 days ago
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I know it can be very difficult for some here to understand why some of these guys in the NFL get into this type of trouble but don't underestimate the importance of upbringing. And the NFL does somewhat have a rookie program in place to supposedly help young guys acclimate to life in the show but it needs to do more. A mentoring program to assist these guys (and I'm not saying it would necessarily help Jones in this particular incidence but others would clearly benefit) would be a win-win for both players and the league. Hell, the cost of such an operation is a drop in the bucket compared to the typical spin damage conducted by the NFL after these types of incidents. The NFLPA is absolutely hurting for some good will lately with the disability player dispute and participation into such a program using retired players to work with some of these younger guys could only help.
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Tyrone BriggsHall of Famer
909 days ago
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"And it's about time. How long did it take for him to finally face some consequences? How many high school grades were altered? How many college classes were taken care of? How much money did he receive from boosters? How many other legal issues have been swept under the rug? " - Just asking but do you have ANY PROOF for ANY of these ALLEGATIONS?
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JuTMSY4Legend
909 days ago
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maybe he meant reggie bush?
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Taytay 24All-American
909 days ago
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I'm not making any specific allegations, Mr. Capital Letters. But don't act like this doesn't happen with star athletes. Who's being naive now?
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Tyrone BriggsHall of Famer
909 days ago
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Of course you are making specific allegations. You tied all of the above to Pacman Jones. If it was a generalized comment, then just say so.
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Taytay 24All-American
909 days ago
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OK--It is a generalized statement. Happy?
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Tyrone BriggsHall of Famer
909 days ago
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Yes. Thank you for clarifying your statement. And in that case, I happen to agree.
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